I spent many years as a hot-mess.
And that’s a really nice way of saying “I floundered like a desperate, insecure loser while unfavorably comparing myself to every other PERFECT woman who was SO much better than me.”
One thing I was really harsh towards myself about was that I couldn’t orgasm through intercourse.
I had a boyfriend who told me every other lover he’d ever had could, so why couldn’t I?
At first I was bitterly like, I bet they faked it. Then: maybe I just can’t. Maybe there’s something wrong with me. Maybe it’s biological.
And I wish I had some really sweet story about learning to orgasm through intercourse, but it really came down to the fact that I didn’t want his ex to be better than me at sex.
So I learned everything I could, and what I found was that it was a skill.
Something every woman can learn to do.
And while that boyfriend is long-gone and my hot-mess days are over, I’ve kept those skills.
I’ve taught many women how to have orgasms through intercourse, and many of their lovers how to give them orgasms through intercourse.
“How do I orgasm from intercourse?” is actually the #1 question I get asked.
So in this week’s video, I’ve summarized my method so you can follow it yourself. You can learn it below.