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My 3 Favorite Spiritual Sex Toys – and how to unlock their magic – Layla Martin

Written by Layla Martin | Mar 16, 2017 7:00:00 AM

Spiritual sex toys….

Is there anything else so fundamentally rebellious as the expression: Sacred Sex?

Now I know the term can sound a bit vague…and even, if we’re honest…a “little” cheesy…

But the experience…OH THE EXPERIENCE!!

To have sacred sex means to experience all that we usually reserve for “the sacred”

Think…overwhelming gratitude…

Majestical awe…

Intimate prayer…

Ecstatic union….

All during lovemaking.

In fact, sex makes experiencing these things more possible if you know what you’re doing.*

(*Please see my YouTube channel for further guidance. 😉)

And you don’t even need a partner…you can do it all by yourself.

Yes, that means sacred masturbation…

which is probably even MORE rebellious.

To practice sacred masturbation means to play with it all…to experience healing…awakening…trauma release…

And ultimately…holyfreakingamazing ecstatic connection to truth and freedom.

Yes, you can put your hands in your pants and just get your rocks off…

Or you can put your hands down your pants and get seriously, wildly, electrically high on life.

I like both, but I prefer the latter.

So, in celebration of all that is possible in masturbation, I have shared with you my 3 Favorite Spiritual Sex Toys and how to unlock their magic below.

To your sacred masturbation ️💖

 

Transcript:

My 3 Favorite Spiritual Sex Toys – and how to unlock their magic

Enlightenment, get your enlightenment, the sex toy enlightenment. I got Jade egg. I got glass dildo. I got stone dildo. Get your enlightenment here. <laugh>

So this video is about my favorite sex toys that I like to use, truly drop in and experience masturbation self-pleasuring from a place where it’s like my art. I feel tapped into a sense of being connected to something much greater than my everyday personality or my everyday ego. And so I’m gonna be sharing with you my three favorite toys that really helped me get there.

So my first favorite is this glass dildo here. Why I love it so much is that it can be used to gently open places of tension within my body. So I love to warm it up. I’ll put it in a glass of warm water ahead of time and I will gently massage the outside of my whole vulva and really open up my groin and my pelvis, and then I’ll place it right at the entrance to my vagina and let my vagina slowly relax slowly open.

So for those of you who experience pain or tension or disconnect in your body, this guy is absolutely incredible. It’s also really exquisite for building sensitivity inside of the vagina.

 

So, so many women say they don’t feel that much during intercourse or they don’t feel very orgasmic. And what I found is because this is quite targeted and especially if it’s a bit warm, I can build my mind body sensations and really focus my mind there. And I find that then the self-pleasuring after that is much richer, it’s more profound.

So my second favorite spiritual sex toy is this one here. It’s made of moonstone from Norway and it is pretty magnificent. It serves two really key purposes. The first is that it can really help with penetration. So there can be a kind of chronic tensing of the vagina against penetration.

So when I had lots of unconscious sex or back when I would have one night stands, I had sex when my body didn’t really want it, or wasn’t really ready. Also some trauma from childhood; it means that I can experience pain during sex.

And so this one is really, really beautiful for helping to relax that for making penetration, something that my body says yes to in a really deep way. You can insert it all the way up inside your vagina and have it touching the cervix.

When you do that and then you pleasure your vulva, what it does is it awakens the cervix and you can first have blended orgasms where your cervix is orgasmic and your external clitoris is orgasmic. And then over time you can actually develop enough sensitivity and capacity that your cervix will become orgasmic.

And my third favorite sex toy is the Jade egg. So this is so cool because it not only gives me an opportunity to build up sensation and connection to my pussy and to my body but it’s a focused tool that has allowed me to remove shame, guilt, conditioning, negativity around my sexuality, and really feel worthy and connected.

The jade egg traditionally is used with a lot of energy practices. So it is exactly like yoga for your sex life, yoga for your pussy. So you get into an amazing state, you feel connected, you feel more alive all through your sexuality and that’s what I really, really love about the jade egg.

So, uh, that’s enlightenment through your sex toys, <laugh> which isn’t actually as crazy as it sounds. It’s a beautiful way for many of us to access these states that, let’s be honest, we’re all hungry for in the modern world. If you’re curious to learn more, you can check out my Crystal Pleasure course where I take you in depth into a very comprehensive seven week training around the yoni egg.

Just a real quick thing is if you’re going to use materials inside of the vagina, be careful about what kinds of materials you use. So jade is safe for internal use. This moonstone is safe for internal use, glass is safe for internal use. But you don’t just wanna put any kind of stone up your vagina because some of them are brittle. Some of them aren’t safe and healthy for internal use.

So the ones that I’ve shared with you absolutely are and the manufacturing makes a difference as well. So some types of manufacturing can make the stones brittle and able to house bacteria. So do your research, buy from people that you trust and use body safe materials. All right, go get enlightened through masturbation. It’s like the wave of the fucking future.