Sex is like a box of chocolates –
It doesn’t matter what’s on the outside, it’s always, always about what’s on the inside.
Once you bite into it, of course.
(Anyone else really, really hate the cherry but love the almond butter? Thank you for entertaining this, by the way, I am deeply grateful…)
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Anyways, when it comes to sex, the focus is often on what’s happening on the outside: did you lick there, were you in that position, did you pull off this move….?
Which, for an energetic person like me is: B.O.R.I.N.G.
Because what I really care about is: How does it feel?
And then I experience it in the reverse: how I feel dictates where I lick and how I move… Do you feel me?
(If you just said yes, then you’re going to love today’s vlog and the Tantric practice I’ll share with you down below!)
In the Tantric traditions, energy is the power of consciousness.
So when you pay attention to the energy of a situation, you can change the power of consciousness in it.
What does that mean?
It means that when you pay attention to energy you can literally create ecstasy… You can enhance sexual attraction… You can even make yourself fall in love with the person you’re with.
Energy is infinitely powerful.
So today I’m going to share with you one of my favorite practices called solar and lunar lovemaking to create mind-blowing ecstasy and a totally electric connection between you and your partner.
This practice allows you to play with energy during sex and create polarity through energy.
Polarity is when you create opposite energies and strengthen them to make the attraction and magnetic pull between them stronger.
In this practice, one of you will be the solar partner and one of you will be the lunar partner…one of you is active, expansive, directed…and one of you is flowing, oceanic, and surrendered…
It’s so simple and powerful and offers you an easy way to access Tantric energy… And I’m going to walk you through the whole practice step by step in the video below.
Now, give it a try and let me know how it goes – it’s one of my favorite practices and I can’t wait to see what magic you’ll experience!
P.S. Want more delicious practices like this that you can do with your partner to experience deep intimacy and exquisite amounts of pleasure?
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P.P.S. You might also like my guest post on Dave Asprey’s Bulletproof Blog that was published a few days ago: Two Effective Practices For Sharing Your Sexual Desires with Your Partner. Check it out!