One of my most favorite things to do in the whole wide world is masturbation.

There, I said it to 200,000 people and anyone you forward this email to.


(Hi Mom! Thanks for supporting me to study sexuality at Stanford University!! I’m making the MOST of it!!!)

Sometimes I wish I could do online dating just because I love writing my profile in my head.

Layla: Sex + Tantra Queen
Interests: sacred masturbation, neuroscience, sex magic, any TV show with vampires, obscure ancient Greek religious practices, meditation, feminism, entrepreneurship, Sanskrit, and quantum physics

DM me if every single thing on this list excites you but does not put you into fear hahahaha.

(Fortunately, Andrew already basically answered this ad six years ago and wasn’t afraid so problem solved….)

Anyways, lots of you have written in asking me about exciting and different ways to self-pleasure…or you’ve never actually self-pleasured before and want to learn how.
For you, I created this video on 27 ways to self-pleasure!!! Enjoy 😉

Please enjoy ALLLLL the ways that our fabulous bodies can experience self-pleasure and if you have any extra suggestions, I want to hear them so put them in the comments!


P.S. If you were like, gee, I wish someone would make a course that mixed sacred masturbation, sex magic, Tantra, ancient Greek spiritual practices, and neuroscience, girrrrrlllllll…I’ve got you covered with my one-year VITA™ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification. If you want to be a magical, effective, holistic, and powerful coach in the realms of sex and relationships…then this program is for you. We’ll start accepting applications on July 23rd, so be on the lookout for an email from me on that date! You can read all about the program here.

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