I've had an illness and a fever for the past few days and Andrew's been taking care of me like a champion - making me ginger, lemon and honey teas and telling me how much he loves me.
Being sick is lame, but having someone look after you makes it SO much better.
It got me thinking though, because at some point, all of us go through a kind of sexual sickness:
- maybe you lose your desire, maybe you can’t have an orgasm, maybe you can’t get an erection, maybe you get stuck in your head, maybe you can’t feel anything…we all go there sometimes.
Too often I see that couples miss this as an opportunity to take care of one another because they take it really personally and get upset.
That usually makes the whole thing worse.
Instead, if your lover is struggling with sexual blockages they usually need you to step up and love them even more deeply than ever so they can work through it.
This week’s Vlog goes really in depth about the issues that may come up for you or your lover and how you can really support one another through them, rather than shutting down.
If you’re interested in discovering more practical tools to support your lover in becoming totally open and free sexually then checkout my upcoming Epic Lovers Masterclass here
Love Layla
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