Yeah…I didn’t masturbate for 13 whole years.

That sounds completely crazy as I write it.

All that exquisite pleasure I denied myself.

Why?

Plain and simple…

I was so ashamed that I stopped.

It all started when I was just 6 years old…

and I vowed to NEVER EVER masturbate again

because I got the message it was dirty and wrong.

Discover the full story in the video below…

and why self-pleasuring is so essential for a healthy & happy life.

Most people I talk to still feel some sort of shame around masturbation.

Ranging from deep religious shame…

or just embarrassment that they get from their friends…

to a shyness self-pleasuring in front of their partner…

a feeling like it’s something to be done in secret…

certainly not something to be celebrated

(or to make a youtube video about 😉 ).

Well, all these years later I’m here to celebrate masturbation…

And sing its praises all over the internet.

This is part of my regular #IAmNotAshamed series…

where I take a topic that people are usually too embarrassed to talk about

and I speak about it publicly

and personally.

Because shame stays in place when people stay silent…

and hearing about it openly takes the shame away.

Each of these videos has been challenging for me to make…

because you’re not supposed to talk about masturbation,

especially not your own

…and still be taken seriously.

Or your own sexual abuse or STDs…

But I feel like real change is social change

and these things only change when we have conversations about them…

out in the open.

And take on a new model of leadership where you can be all parts of yourself…

and still be a leader

and still be respected.

Here’s to the new world we’re creating together!!

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