Exquisite next-level erotic experiences…

Deep emotional safety…

And a suite of tools and techniques to keep you engaged and falling in love over a lifetime.




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If you're curious about learning the power of Tantra (or desire to dive even deeper into your existing Tantra practice)...


This Mastermind is a unique opportunity to master the ritual aspects of sacred sexuality…

While also learning the science of relationship skills so you can safely deepen your expression together.


Think of this program as a PhD in relational and erotic skills…


It’s the answer to one of the questions I hear the most often: “Where can we learn Tantra in a safe, detailed way?”

As a Tantra practitioner with almost two decades of experience, whenever someone has said the words ‘Tantric Couples Workshop’ to me…

The thought of being stuck in some cheesy situation with terrible music blaring and a possible non-consensual orgy situation that I truly didn’t want to be in with my partner terrified me.


The Tantric Mastermind is NOT that.

It will be an erotic combination of the hottest date nights, most incredible romantic holidays with your partner and the thrilling adventure of a lifetime — all wrapped into one.

Over our 6 months together, you’ll not only learn both foundational and advanced “Tantra” skills and how to have Tantric Sex as a couple…

You’ll also learn how to become the most incredible lovers for each other…

While deepening the skills and techniques that train you in emotional, intimate and relational mastery.


I learned to see my lover as a God and that is such a gift. It was so beautiful to see him at his most masculine and to be seen as a Goddess.

Bri and Mike, USA

My partner and I grew together and connected in a brand new way - and not only on a sexual level. We were finally able to restart our sex life after 7 years of absolutely nothing.

Thomas and Olivia, Italy
I am becoming the man I always wanted to be. I am now the husband my sexy wife deserves and we both can meet our sexual desires together.
Mateo, Spain

When you join The Tantric Mastermind, you receive exclusive access to two live, in-person retreats held in magnificent, luxury boutique locations.


Deep connection and erotic passion combine to provide you with two profoundly intimate, romantic escapes, one at the beginning of your journey together and one at the end.

They’re once-in-a-lifetime opportunities exquisitely curated for couples who desire to elevate their relationship through the transformative power of Tantra.




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What I’ve discovered through teaching Tantra and working with over 15,000 paying clients…

Is that when we deepen our erotic connection and grow together sexually…

Our inner fears and most tender wounds begin to feel safe and held enough to show up for healing.

Inside this program, you’ll be trained every step of the way to show up for both yourselves AND each other on a whole new emotional level…

While discovering erotic practices that’ll allow you to evolve and grow your chemistry to be even more powerful than when you first met.

The vast majority of couples say that with a Tantric practice, they fall more in love than they ever thought possible…

And with the relational skills we’ll be teaching you, you’ll experience a new level of freedom and safety with your partner as you move away from poor relational habits you learned when you were young and replace them with engaging ways of communicating that allow you and your partner to thrive emotionally.

The Tantric Mastermind will be an excellent fit for you and your partner if you’re already in a wonderful place in your relationship and desire to take your Tantric explorations to a whole new level...

But let’s be honest, most of us aren’t there ;)

The Tantric Mastermind will also be supportive for you if:

You’re brand new to sacred sexuality and even a bit resistant or scared

You’ve grown apart sexually and are trying to find the spark again

You’ve developed unhealthy communication habits or lack a feeling of safety with one another


Yes, this deeply held container can take you to the sexual and relational stratosphere…

And it can also heal many of the painful patterns that show up for us in our partnerships.
From the Tantric perspective on relationships, we’re designed to heal many of our deeper wounds and illusions through our romantic connections…
But because we aren’t taught this, many of us fall into the trap of cycling over and over again in the same disagreement…
Leaving us unable to heal those wounds or even causing us to drift apart.
When you discover how to recognize and identify the healing that’s asking to be done…
And you’ve been given the tools as a couple to address it with love, care and safety…
The underlying cycles of emotional turmoil longing to heal can finally resolve.

In that resolution, even more love and connection becomes available to you.

This is exactly how you use the cycle of challenges that we all experience in relationships to fall even more deeply in love, rather than allowing them to drive you apart.
Almost none of us were given a high-level education in how to be an erotic partner…
Let alone an education in the power of sacred sexuality.

This program is designed to train you in the full spectrum of being a profoundly present, deeply knowledgeable lover, including…
How to offer delicious conscious touch…
Give the most incredible oral sex…
Engage in full-body energy orgasm practices with your partner…
And even practice advanced sex magic to co-create the life of your dreams...



If this sounds exhilarating, but also a little overwhelming...


We’ve created a step-by-step initiation for you that’ll guide you, starting with your own solo practices in month one…

Continuing with your first initiation and foundational Tantra retreat with your partner…

Followed by 4 months of erotic date nights and online training from the comfort of your own home…

All culminating in your discovery of the most advanced, powerful Tantra skills at the live, in-person closing retreat.

Whether you’ve been practicing Tantra for years…

Or you and your partner are just getting started…


There is a place for you inside The Tantric Mastermind.


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We never really knew what my body was capable of. I had never had an orgasm. After this training, we are now madly in love and enjoying delicious sex (and orgasms) together!
Julie and Luke, USA
After 35 years of marriage and much pain, we were extremely cautious. Now, we have an active sex life! This was life-changing for our marriage.
Marie and David, Canada

We learned so many practices that opened us up to new levels of pleasure we didn't know were even available to us. We had good sex before, but we definitely have epic sex now!

Claire and Philip, UK

Learn with me

Hi, I’m Layla Martin and I’ve been practicing and teaching Tantra for over 20 years.
My first trip to Asia was 23 years ago, where I began a journey that would span over a decade learning from the best Tantric gurus in the world.
I also studied pre-med at Stanford University, thinking I might become a doctor instead of a notorious High Priestess of ecstasy…
Which is why my teachings and approach have always mixed mysticism and science.
While I’ve always been spiritually gifted, I used to be a genuine relational mess.
I’ve been practicing Tantra in long-term relationships my whole adult life…
But because I experienced extreme sexual abuse as a child…
And very complex emotional PTSD in my family life growing up…

I was terrified of love.

I picked fights, engaged in emotional toxicity and was completely unable to show up in full devotion to a partner.
Given my experience, I was destined to either be in a seriously unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship…
Or to just keep acquiring an ever-increasing number of cats and moving deeper into the forest — alone.
But here’s what all that trauma taught me: I could know the most advanced, high-level sexual and energetic skills on the planet…
And still be a total asshole in partnership.
And if I wanted to experience true, emotional safety and epic devotion in this lifetime, I would have to apprentice myself not just to the erotic arts…
But to the deepest healing of trauma and wounding available.
I taught myself - and then so many others - not just the fancy erotic practices (which are SO damn fun and sexy)...
But the often challenging, less glamorous work of healing intimacy wounds and becoming emotionally safe.


At the end of the day, we want both

We want to have the most exquisite sexual ecstasies with our partner…
Traveling together on magic carpet rides of eros through the Universe of lovemaking…
And we also want to feel safe, held, understood and deeply expressed together.
I’m not a perfect partner or a fully healed human being.
But I have learned to thrive in partnership, create healthy, high functioning and emotionally safe dynamics…
AND engage in the erotic thrills and incredibly powerful growth of Tantra.
This is why I teach what I teach and it's what I want for you.
This is the unique approach of VITA™️, my methodology that combines ancient mystical teachings with the most up-to-date, evidence based healing technology…
Allowing you to sky-rocket your growth…
Advance your healing…
And experience the sex and relationship that your soul truly desires.

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How the Tantric Mastermind works









Taoist Energy Cultivation
Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms
Multiorgasmic Training
Presence and Safety Skills
Hormones and Health for Your Cock and Body
Masculine Polarity


Crystal Egg Practice
Full Body Energy Orgasm Techniques
Multiorgasmic Training
Supplementation and Diet for Thriving
Presence and Safety Skills
Feminine Polarity





In a safe and lush space…
You’ll go on the romantic adventure of a lifetime…

In classes, workshops and your own private
practice in your bedroom, learn together:

  • Erotic Meditations

  • Daily Morning Practices to Cultivate Desire

  • Sex Breathwork Techniques

  • Sexual and Intimate Healing Processes

  • Sex Rituals 101

  • Energy Circuits and Ecstatic Lovemaking





Join us virtually in a lush ambiance of candlelight and romantic musical artistry.

We’ll be guiding you step-by-step through deeper practices such as:

Ecstatic Pussy and Penis Massage

Divine Sex Rituals

Energy Orgasm

Sexual Alchemy Techniques

Sex Magic

Sexual Polarity / Power Play



Learn advanced relationship skills from the best methodologies in the world.




Discover how to embody the principles of nonviolent communication in your relationship, which include self-connection, honest expression, empathetic presence, self-empathy, means of influence, and more.
Bringing nonviolent communication into your relationship will create more deeply attuned connection.



Tap into empathy, vulnerability, and accountability in a way you’ve never experienced in your partnership. Learn to honor your partner while honoring yourself.



Show up for your partner, no matter what they’re experiencing.
Say whatever you need to say without being judged, allowing for trust and safety.



Create a shared space within your relationship, both emotionally and physically, where you and your partner feel safe, understood, and supported. Hold and nurture both your emotional well-being and your partner’s.



Learn the most effective tools to speak honestly and openly with one another without triggering defensiveness. Have challenging conversations with love and care for one another’s nervous systems.



Understand how your childhood experiences impact your relationship today. Heal attachment wounding and pain from the past so that you can love your partner more fully and experience the best of what your relationship has to offer when you are far more free of your emotional wounding.


These classes will give you the necessary training and skills to do healing work together sexually and relationally. You’ll discover how to communicate from a loving but truthful and authentic space. You’ll understand how to heal and grow together in ways that amplify your connection and love.




In this exquisite retreat discover how to explore:

Deeper Tantric Sex Rituals

Mantras/Yantras and Crystal Grids

Divinity Sex Magic

Astrological Sex


The intensity of my orgasms has increased exponentially. I can now express my sexuality more freely and more fully with my partner. It was the best investment we made and we wish everyone had the opportunity to join.
Jennie and Shaun, Australia
Our sex has reached a totally new level. We feel like we’ve really started something new and we’re so happy we did this together.
Vilma and Fred, Sweden
In taking the program, we tried things we normally wouldn't try - our skills and confidence have grown tenfold!
Sofia and Lucas, USA
We've been together for 11 years and it felt important to invest in our relationship and sex life. What we learned strengthened our commitment to thriving together for the rest of our lives.
Katie and Rob, USA

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Picture this…

You and your partner go on your weekly date night. It’s your normal routine - a cozy dinner out, perhaps a movie, a stroll around town - whatever your MO is.

You go home and have the same sex you normally have and end the night with both of you rolling over and falling asleep.
It's your weekly norm, and it “works…” but you’re craving something more. You know something is missing.

Now imagine this… a sexy, Tantric date night.

Skipping the dinner out, the same old movie and routine sex…

You drop into a date night that transcends the ordinary, introducing you and your partner to new dimensions of connection and intimacy.

Your partner creates a magical setting - candles, sensual music, dim lighting, a locked door…

And you start the night with Fears, Loves, and Desires. In this exercise, you and your partner ask each other… “What do you really want,” “What are you afraid of?” and, “What do you love about me?”
Kicking off the night with a high level of communication opens up intense levels of intimacy.
You move into pussy and penis massage, allowing for a gorgeous experience of fully giving (for the massager) and fully receiving (for the recipient).
As the night continues, you tap deeper into your pleasure, orgasm and connection as a couple…
And end the night with the most electric sex you’ve ever had.
Yes, this CAN happen…
And if it’s something you desire…


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The reality is, all couples fight.


But, how you navigate conflict holds the power to bring you closer or to drive you apart…

Once you discover the relational skills to address and resolve conflict through a lens of love and safety, your communication will skyrocket the level of intimacy in your partnership.

Picture this…

You and your partner are in the kitchen after dinner, arguing over an issue you’ve tried to solve for what feels like the ten-thousandth time.

The dishes are left in the sink (again)…

Your partner just received another shipment from Amazon (seriously?)…

Your in-laws are bugging you about the holidays (ugh…)…

The kids are bickering in the living room (you feel the irritation building)…

And you haven’t had time to dedicate to your relationship, creating a feeling of disconnect.

Whatever the issue may be, when you haven’t built foundational relationship and communication skills, what you thought would be a short conversation can quickly escalate into a massive argument.


Often these arguments include…

Feelings of jealousy and aggravation

Name calling and raised voices

Fears arising (from both sides) that you struggle to work through

Frustration surrounding your inability to effectively communicate

Lack of clarity, feeling stuck and not being able to find a way forward

On the other hand, once you’ve mastered the relational and communication skills The Tantric Mastermind will train you in…

When you find a conversation starting to escalate into an argument…
You’ve now done the work, allowing you to…
Pause, breathe and reconnect to yourself and your partner…
Deeply tune into where each of you are approaching the situation from…
And come into the disagreement with compassion and empathy, doing your best to see your partner's side and offer them grace and understanding.
You don’t blame or criticize (which may very well have been your go-tos in the past)…
You simply listen and come from a place of empathy and reason.
Doesn’t that sound so much better?
Learn the relational skills to build this foundation of safety, communication and conflict resolution inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples…

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We’ve been together for 11 years and have a 6 year-old child. We wanted to spice things up again, check out variety and see if we could deepen our sexual connection. This program was a really fun way to breathe fresh life into our sexual relationship and take things to another level.
Johann and Kate, France
After taking the program, our love making is more diverse, more intimate, hotter, more kinky…
Lucas, USA
After early sexual trauma, the date nights have been so wonderful. They are like a doorway to safe, happy, ecstatic sex!
Regina, New Zealand


You can choose from two (2) different enrollment periods. A discount is available for each if you pay in full.

The Tantric Mastermind for Couples will run for 6 months. The following are included in the program fee:

  • Pre-retreat live calls (4 per gender)
  • Two 4-day, in-person retreat trainings
  • 6 Erotic Date Nights (live on a webinar platform)
  • 6 Couple's Skills Classes (live on a webinar platform)
  • 6 Somatic / Eros Skills Classes (live on a webinar platform)
  • A secure, comprehensive online learning platform

The cost of the two (2) in-person retreats (accommodations, meals, travel) are not included in your initial purchase.

An optional but recommended cost is the six (6) recommended books from the provided reading list, which total approximately $100 USD.

We are so confident you and your partner will experience a powerful transformation when you complete The Tantric Mastermind for Couples that we offer a money-back guarantee, minus the retreat costs.

This guarantee is contingent upon you completing the full program, including attending all program calls (live or replays) and both live retreats (in-person). You must submit your request for a refund and all required documentation by a specified date, as per the launch details, to qualify. Please see terms and conditions for details.

Each month, you and your partner will need to invest approximately 10 hours to complete the program.

Per module, you'll have access to one (1) erotic date night, one (1) relationship skills training session and one (1) somatic sexual skills training. These calls will be hosted live on a video streaming software and replays will be available.

In addition, you'll need to invest time into the in-person retreats.

Throughout the six (6) months of our live container together, you'll be expertly guided through six (6) erotic date nights where you'll learn Tantric sex rituals and skills like sex magic, energy orgasm, erotic massage and others, all designed to drop you into the most sensual, erotic sexual experiences.

You'll also have access to high-level relationship skills and communication classes to improve your partnership, where you'll learn techniques such as nonviolent communication, space holding principles, inner child healing, Internal Family Systems parts work and more.

In addition, each module will include access to a beautiful somatic sexual skills training session. These classes will train you on breathwork for sex, massage/sensual touch, oral sex skills and other techniques designed to deepen your energetic and sexual connection.

At the in-person retreats, you and your partner will be guided through erotic meditations, daily morning practices to cultivate desire, sexual and intimate healing processes, Tantric sex rituals and so much more!

The Tantric Mastermind for Couples will be an excellent fit for you and your partner if you're already in a wonderful place in your relationship and desire to take your Tantric explorations to a whole new level!

However, The Tantric Mastermind will also be incredibly supportive for you and your partner if you're...

  • Brand new to sacred sexuality and even a bit resistant or scared...
  • Experiencing sexual disconnection and are trying to find the spark again...
  • Working to heal unhealthy communication habits or a lack of safety with one another.

This deeply held container can take you to the sexual and relational stratosphere and it can also heal many of the painful patterns that show up for us in our partnerships.