Squirting can be super sexy and pleasurable for both women and men, but fear can often hold women back from the experience.
Many women come to a point during sex when they feel like they have to pee.
And because they’d feel embarrassed to pee, they clench up and hold back, oftentimes preventing orgasm and squirting.
But this sensation they’re feeling may actually be their bodies wanting to female ejaculate.
So with this understanding, I love coaching women on how to relax and open up during sex so that they can experience more pleasure, more orgasms, and even squirting.
This incredible act of surrender can be so erotic for men and women.
So if you want to explore squirting, what is beautifully called amrita or divine nectar in Tantra, I’m sharing with you today 5 steps to a squirting orgasm.
Check out the video below!
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Transcript:
How To Squirt: 5 Steps To A Squirting Orgasm
Hi, I’m Layla. I’m reporting to you live from the bathtub, and we’re gonna talk about five ways that you can squirt female ejaculation.
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So squirting is super fun and it is
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It’s an act of surrender. It can also feel super orgasmic and it can be a huge blessing in my opinion, to get shot right in the face with this refined feminine nectar. If you wanna do a tantric pussy massage, which can definitely lead to squirting, you can check out the link down below where you can massage a pussy.
All right, something to keep in mind is to set her at ease. So ejaculation is a lot like pee. So it can feel like you’re gonna have to urinate. And so if you stop yourself, you’ll actually like, get tight and hold back, and you won’t actually ejaculate or urinate.
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And so there’s actually a theory that the vast majority of women are shutting down their orgasm because they’re afraid of urinating, but they wouldn’t actually urinate. They ejaculate. And yet it’s a huge surrender to actually risk urination in front of a partner.
So it’s very important to set your partner at ease so that even if they were to pee the bed or the bath or wherever you are it’s okay.
Number two is to warm her up. So female ejaculation comes from the G-spot, which is erectile. So if she’s not turned on the G spot’s not gonna be erect, you’re not gonna be able to feel it. So you wanna make sure that she’s turned on or else the G spot’s not gonna feel good? And it’s definitely not going to create ejaculation.
Number three is you want to access and massage her G-spot. So the best way to do this is to be using one Palm or finger with your less dominant hand, and be doing circles or stimulation over her clitoral glands in the way that feels most pleasurable to her and very slowly, but very slowly, because otherwise she’ll clench up and shut down her pleasure. You want to insert one or two fingers inside of her body with consent, and you want to feel for her G-spot.
Now some women’s G-spots are right at the entrance of the vagina. Some are even a few inches in because every female prostate is different. You wanna feel for something that feels like a walnut, soft walnut on the ridge of her vaginal canal towards her stomach.
Once you find the G-spot, you’re gonna want to start sliding in and out over the G-spot to really turn her on and activate the G-spot. And over time you wanna build pressure deeper and deeper because it’s deep pressure with almost a “come here” motion stroking that will work to create the ejaculation. In a way, you’re almost like milking the prostate, which doesn’t sound very sexy, but it feels sexy.
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Number four, you’re going to encourage her release. So for a lot of women, this is actually through sounding. You can invite her to take a deep breath into her G-spot and sound what she’s feeling when she does that. She’s gonna start opening up her energy, opening up her pelvic floor and her entire sexual system will relax, which is what’s required for ejaculation to occur.
Now she might feel shy so you can encourage her by saying things like I encourage you to let go. Anything you feel is okay. She might even have emotions because a lot of emotions can be stuck in the G-spot, preventing full ejaculation. So if you encourage emotional release, crying-maxing, anger-gasms, all kinds of emotional expression, you’ll find that you strike gold.
Five is encourage her to surrender into the experience. So a lot of women might be like, oh, I need to ejaculate. Or I’m looking for this kind of experience. And what will happen is they’ll actually shut down the ejaculation experience. If you encourage her to continue to feel, to continue to sound and continue to let go. You’ll ask for feedback at any time.
You encourage her to release all the way and especially to use her voice. It will create a deep state of surrender that combined with the G-spot massage will often lead to female ejaculation. So when you get sprayed in the face, you can thank me in the comments below. Go ahead and sign up for that tantric pussy massage.
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