Although sex in any position can be super pleasurable, certain positions offer just the right kind of stimulation for female orgasm.
Whether it’s positions that hit the g-spot just right…
Or positions that allow for clitoral and nipple stimulation…
Certain sex moves tend to bring a woman to orgasm from penetrative sex better than others.
And the best way to find what works for you is to explore all different kinds of positions and stimulation!
So in today’s episode, you’ll discover 5 of the best positions for female orgasms.
Happy expl-O-ring!
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Transcript:
5 Best Sex Positions for Female Orgasms
I like to think of every sex position as an art form. So it’s not like, oh, doggy style. Like, how am I supposed to do it? It’s like, how do I make watercolor out of doggy style or whatever position I’m in? Or how do I use magical Sharpies to make girl on top outstanding, right?
Like what is it to make each sex position your own? Not like, what does it look like in porn? Or how would someone else do it? Like, what is your version of each position? And really taking it on? I think of it like being the sexual superstar, but like your experience is what matters the most. And so I love to teach this way of becoming more fluid, more open, and really like in touch with yourself in every sexual position, in my programs, because it’s just such a deep, internal way to relate to sex.
Not like how do I do this position? Like, it’s an idea of something that you have to create, but how do I feel my way through this position? Like a dancer or an artist. And you’ll find that you then end up not liking certain positions or finding certain positions degrading or feeling pain in certain positions, but because you’re finding your own way and really listening to your body, each position can become fully alive.
So if you want to take a 30 day challenge to become multi orgasmic in different sex positions, I’ve included my free multiorgasmic in 30 days, guide down below, you can go ahead and click the link. You get access to it immediately. You can also subscribe to the YouTube channel. So you don’t miss a single video.
So one of the things I was realizing is I was putting this video together is I was like, why does it feel like sex positions are named by bros? Or like anti-sex misogynistic, desert patriarchs? Like who let that, I mean, obviously the fact that they all got a hold of sex for a few thousand years has been the misery of all of us.
But what we want to do is reimagine sex, right? Language is so powerful. So as I go through these five positions, so too, are we gonna look at what could we call these positions that inspires us? That makes us be like, oh, hell yes.
Okay. So for the first position, which is known as cowgirl or girl on top, currently, we’ve got a little poll for you, sex polll that asks you what you wanna call this position. So some ideas we came up with are the O ride, the pussy purr, the pussy slide or the pussy ride. So pick one of those or let us know in the comments below, what do you want to rename this position that makes you feel inspired to ride it, to do it, to play it, to have the most delicious experience.
So what is so fun about this position is that you really get to work your hips in a way that you don’t get to in many other positions. So many other positions almost invite your partner with a penis or a dildo to be kind of taking control of the thrusting. In this position, you get to be sensual as deep or as shallow as you want, and really find that kind of erotic pulsation from deep within your body.
Don’t wanna lose a crystal. All right, <laugh> also, while this position could feel a little bit more disconnected, right? Because you can like throw your head back, close your eyes, get lost in it. You can also lean forward and really kiss and touch your partner, looking deep into their eyes. So just know that you can also make this position as deep and soulful as you desire.
Position two doggy style, which we have come up with potential names of down and dirty or booty bounce. I also think of, for some reason, I always think of the yoga pose, tabletop <laugh>, which is kind of fun too.
So the reason that this can be so much fun is especially if you get self-conscious or you feel like you’re one of those people who likes to be so focused on pleasing your partner, this can be a position where you’re really invited to get lost in your own universe. It’s also a position where you can work with your partner in the tempo and the flow to really find what works for you.
In fact, if your partner’s more stationary, which you can invite them to do, you can really find what works for you in your hips, the level of thrusting in the angle that super turns you on. And then what’s really, really, really incredible is when you and your partner actually work together with the tempo and the bounce to create this like super orgasmic alchemy together, this is also an awesome position for your partner.
Being able to stimulate your nipples, your breasts, or your clitoris, depending on how you’re doing position, which can enhance your orgasmic potential position.
Number three is the bridge. So this is essentially missionary position, but with your pelvis lifted. And so what this can do is if you’re sitting on a pillow or even two pillows, it can make access to your G-spot even easier. And so this is a position where you can literally squirt or ejaculate during intercourse in which can be a tremendous and delicious release. Also because it activates the G-spot it can give you access to deeper and internal orgasmic experiences.
If it feels uncomfortable when you do it, it’s probably because your G-spot is looking for some de-armoring, some internal massage in order to release psychosomatic tension and pain, which can be there so that you can recover the full pleasure of your G-spot.
If you’re interested in doing that, you can go ahead and check out one of the links below to the video that we’ll talk about, how to de-armor and restore the pleasure of your G-spot position.
Number four is the Lotus, or Yab-Yum. This is one of the most beautiful positions for having your chakras aligned and for going very slow. In fact, this position really lends itself to not focusing on thrusting or penetration, but on stillness instead.
So you can literally have an orgasm from a fully still penis or dildo, and literally be in such deep communion with your partner, that just the presence of their body can put you into the throes of orgasm. So the Lotus position is super divine for having chakra alignment. So it’s very powerful for unlocking energy and for really inviting you to focus on the subtle nature of energy sex rather than getting overwhelmed by penetration.
So one of my theories is that a lot of women and people with pussies don’t orgasm from intercourse because their partners are going too fast, too soon, which is creating subtle tension inside the body, right? If a massage therapist went too hard and too intense on your body, what do you do? You actually, like you, you close up right? You contract trying to protect yourself against the pain.
So a lot of intercourse is happening too fast, too hard and too soon. And so what’s happening is that a woman’s body is subtly contracting and it’s creating pain. And it’s also preventing her from coming to her full orgasmic potential. So positions like the Lotus reduces that so that the penetrating partner is not, um, basically going too hard and too fast. But instead the subtlety of penetration can be felt by both partners. This can be exquisite and it can retrain you into the art of slow sex position.
Number five is the side spoon. So this is really delicious because it brings the best of cuddle, the hotness of sex and the ability of your partner to touch your full body, including clitoris stimulation, which can make it highly orgasmic. It can also be really great for anal sex as well. So I find even though spooning feels like not the sexiest thing in the whole world, it’s actually super erotic, super intimate and allows for really delicious and really exquisite penetration.
So if you have any suggestions down in the comments, I invite you to add them of what brings you the most pleasure, what kind of positions do you find yourself reaching the heights of ecstasy in? It’s always good to get that community sharing for each other. And then go ahead.
And if you want to do the multi orgasmic challenge, click on the guide down below, it gives you a 30 day process for becoming multi orgasmic, where you can just have orgasm after orgasm, after orgasm. Thank you so much for tuning in. Remember to go ahead and subscribe to the channel. And I’m just really, really, really inviting in so much more delicious, empowered sex that feels so good from the inside.
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