The other night Andrew reached to touch me as we were cuddling by the fire and I said to him:
“Could you just imagine that energy is streaming out of your hands and before you touch me with your hand, focus on touching me with that energy first?”
He looked a little skeptical but tried it, and as his hand moved towards me it was like my whole body lit up.
I wanted his physical touch at least 10x more when he touched me energetically, first.
We’ve grown up in a culture that has emphasized physical touch as the key ingredient in sex, but physical touch is actually only a teeny tiny percentage of what really turns people on.
In fact, many of us don’t even like it when foreplay starts with physical touch because that’s not how we’re wired, so if you’re just trying to touch your partner without turning them on in the way they really desire first, they can end up disliking your touch!
In order to fix this, you’ll want to discover together what actually works for you and/or your partner to get turned on.
So, in this world of limitless possibilities, what are some ways that you can creatively turn your partner on that don’t involve physical touch?
{NOTE: they aren’t all energy, that’s just my thing! There are so many other dimensions to explore!}
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